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Self-Care Tips for New Moms: How to Ask for Help, Accept Support, and Set Healthy Boundaries

Updated: May 3

Redefining Self-Care for New Mothers


Mom with newborn
Mom with newborn

Self-care isn’t just bubble baths and pedicures. Sometimes, it’s asking for help, saying “yes,” or even saying “no.”


There’s this unspoken expectation that moms have to do it all — care for the baby, prepare nutritious meals, nurture relationships, maintain appearances, and somehow hold onto their sanity too.


So, what’s a new mom to do when there are only so many hours in a day, and no matter how hard we work, the to-do list never seems to shrink?


Ask for Help

If you’re lucky enough to have friends or family nearby, reach out.See if someone can run an errand, walk your dog, or help with laundry.


If a warm meal would fill your love tank, ask for it — better yet, ask someone to help organize a meal train. Small, simple acts of support can lighten your load more than you realize.


Accept the Help Offered

“How can I help?” “Is there anything you need?”


When people offer assistance, they usually mean it. And as a new mom, you may be surprised by just how many people want to support you — especially the experienced moms who have walked this path before.


The next time someone offers, try saying “yes.” Receiving help is a gift to both you and your baby — it strengthens your support network and reminds you that you’re not meant to do this alone.


It’s Okay to Say No

Boundaries are a form of self-care, too.


It’s absolutely okay to decline visitors, skip events, or say no to anything that feels overwhelming. This season is about healing, bonding, and protecting your peace. Anything that doesn't align with that can wait.


You don’t owe anyone explanations — your well-being and your baby’s needs come first.


You’re Doing Beautiful, Sacred Work

Motherhood is beautiful. It’s also hard.Allowing the people who love you to support you doesn’t make you weak — it makes you wise.


Asking for help, accepting kindness, and protecting your energy are acts of deep love — for yourself, for your baby, and for the mother you are becoming.


And you know what?You won’t lose a single "momma point" by asking for help — I promise.


From my heart to yours,

Sumer

 
 
 

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